In Her Own Words
About her
Rooted in my land, Introvert, INFJ, community minded, outdoors, practical, hard working, always learning, too intense, as active as I can, complex, still working to survive, less able than I want.
Passionate & obsessed about my small farm, which is needing love, care & attention, (so do I) - regenerative/permaculture management: want to repair, simplify, be productive with low inputs, natural cycles, would live to share, so much to do, so much to learn, such beauty & diversity to curate, opportunities to create.
Always Try to do too much, which triggers my fibromyalgia that I manage holistically and effectively (most of the time, but it bites back, could do better) . Strive to be well.
Hate laziness, selfishness, sloppiness but am no perfectionist. Doing our best is the aim.
With support and companionship could do more of my other passions : explore the local area; local history; food (production, preservation, cooking, low carb for my fibro control), fibre crafts : spinning & weaving, getting back into music (70s, folk, rock), celebrate the cycle of life, sabbats ; photography
Interested in someone to talk to, share ideas with, care for land with, learn together, be still, be active, be aware.
About her ideal match
Someone caring, empathetic, with good practical skills, interested or experiemced in learning about the new land care, soil science and regenerative holistic ways, the natural world
Able to cope with someone who isn't as fit as she would like, but would be supportive in journey to recovery.
I would love to do more, but cannot on my own : more here, more walks, local travelling
Not overly extrovert as cannot cope with loud, busy places / events.
Cannot deal with selfishness, laziness, want to sit around all day, all weekend TV sports,
Not going to be travelling or going to overnight events any time soon.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oban, Argyll & Bute, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Scotland, United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Country Pursuits: |
Growing vegetables; Keeping & showing livestock; Keeping chickens; Making preserves |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Folk; Rock |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Other |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Farmer Wants a Wife: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Very |